All our life we are told things like the quickest ways of gaining attention is to no longer want it. Of course you don’t want to run a battle to gain someone’s attention because you shouldn’t. It has to come from within and there is nothing wrong with wanting attention , we all need it because it’s basic nature to feel the need to be attended to, complimented at and appreciated every now and then.
Appreciation is the cornerstone of every relationship whether with your partner, parents, siblings or friends. We need it in our life.
We have been wired in a way whereby we feel that hoping for attention would only make us look like the lesser one in a relationship which is not true.
So kindly pay attention 😝💁🏻